Relationships

Struggling in personal relationships can be deeply distressing. It’s common to experience difficulties with intimacy, trust, and communication, which can lead to a feeling of disconnection or dissatisfaction with your relationships. If you’re finding it hard to manage these challenges alone, consulting a psychologist like myself can help you address these issues constructively.

While I do not offer couples therapy I do frequently help individuals with their relationships with partners, family, friends, work colleagues and other people they have in their life.

Signs of Relationship Issues

There are a number of indicators that you might be experiencing relationship issues, including:

Communication Breakdown: Struggling to discuss feelings openly, experiencing frequent misunderstandings or feeling unheard.
Increased Conflict: Having more arguments than usual, or escalating small disagreements into serious conflicts.
Emotional Distance: Feeling detached or disconnected from your partner, or lacking emotional support.
Trust Issues: Experiencing jealousy, suspicion, or lack of trust in your partner's (or friends and family’s) actions or motives.
Change in Commitment Level: One or both partners showing less interest in the future of the relationship or in making plans together.
Avoidance:Avoiding spending time with your partner or dodging conversations about relationship issues.

Getting Help with Relationship Issues

Addressing relationship issues is crucial for personal wellbeing and the health of your relationships. Understanding the underlying causes of your relationship difficulties can significantly improve your connections with others.

How I Can Help

Although I do not offer couples counselling, I do work with individuals experiencing relationship difficulties to explore underlying factors such as past traumas, attachment styles, and personal values. We can develop strategies to help you improve communication, enhance intimacy, and build trust in relationships.

Services and Resources to Help You with Relationship Issues

Consulting a Psychologist

As a psychologist based in Melbourne, I provide individual counselling to help people understand and improve their personal relationships.

Self-Help Resources

For those experiencing milder forms of relationship issues, self-help resources can be beneficial:

Relationships Australia Victoria: Relationships Australia is probably the first stop if you want more information or support for relationship difficulties. This organisation offers a range of services to support healthy relationships, including resources and workshops that can be helpful.

The Gottman Institute: Known for research-based approaches to improving relationships, their website offers articles, exercises, and advice that can be valuable for personal growth in relationships.

If you’re struggling with relationship issues, help is available. By working together, we can address your concerns and help you develop healthier, more satisfying relationships.

I hope this information encourages you to take the first step towards improving your personal relationships and achieving greater fulfilment.